SEIZE THE DAY!

Today is the day to make that intention - and stick to it this time! Why? We have a new moon in the 'fixed' sign of Aquarius. New Moons are great for new beginnings. Great day to make a whole new start... So if you didn't stick with your New Year resolutions, do it today - do it NOW! Tomorrow, the Chinese New Year of the Horse will have galloped its way into our lives - Yee Haw!

And the operative word for the Chinese New Year upon us is 'gallop'. Visualize yourself galloping towards your dreams, filled with energy and determination, despite changing winds, storms, and roadblocks of every kind. Visualize yourself galloping over each and every roadblock like a graceful horse. Aquarius can be quite a stubborn sign at times, so having a new moon in this sign only adds the necessary grit.

Your to-do list for the Chinese New Year of the Horse:

1.   Clear away excess clutter around your personal space.

2.   Create a dream board for the year ahead...

3.    Set your table nicely, order in a Chinese meal, and put a little
       statue of a horse in the Good Fortune sector of your home.

4.    Get some little red Chinese envelopes and fill them with lucky
        chocolate coins. Give one to each of your friends!

5.    Wear something red tomorrow for extra good luck.

6.    Last, but not least - GONG HEI FAT CHOY - HAVE FUN!

Love,

Patricia xxx

AQUARIUS - YOU GOT STYLE BABY!

The sun is currently in the sign of Aquarius, and will remain so until February 19th when it will dance into Pisces. For now it's all about that genius a.k.a. Aquarius. For the record, today is Oprah's birthday. So Happy Birthday Oprah!

In the true spirit of Aquarius, my blogs for the next few weeks will be rather unpredictable! We'll go with the flow...discuss Relationships and Aquarius - what makes them stay? Maybe we'll look at a few famous natives of the sign, and discuss their relationships, diets, fashion, brain, good side, bad side, entertaining the Aquarius. We'll look at EVERYTHING to do with Aquarius. How about everything you wanted to know - but were afraid to ask!!

For today's blog on fashion, I would like to thank my daughters Alexandra and Victoria, who collaborated with me to create it - and what fun we had! Check out their amazing blog too at Aliandvic.blogspot.com.

For now, let's look at some famous Aquarius ladies and learn about the style that most becomes this alluring sign.

Enjoy!

Patricia xxx


AQUARIUS (20 January - 18 February)
Symbol: The Water Bearer
Element: Air
Colour: Electric blue, silver
Gem: Amethyst
Flower: Orchid, bird of paradise, tulip
Traits: Friendly, intelligent, quick-witted, innovative & idealistic, but can be unpredictable, detached, and stubborn.
Your Style: Aquarians are unpredictable and sometimes eccentric in their style. You are not afraid of trying out new trends, and frequently set your own!

FAMOUS AQUARIANS

                {Jennifer Aniston}                            {Lauren Conrad}                                    {Shakira}

{Paris Hilton}                                                        {Alicia Keys}                               {Christina Ricci}

 {Mischa Barton}                         {Daisy Lowe}                                   {Emma Roberts}

{Isla Fisher}                                                 {Kelly Rowland}                                {Rosamund Pike}              

TOP 10 STYLE PICKS FOR AQUARIANS

1. Interesting Winter Coat: You tend to favour patterned rather than solid items, so this Aztec print coat would be perfect for braving the cold in.

Hooded toggle coat - owntherunway.com

2. Patterned Jeans: These chevron-patterned jeans will stand out in a sea of boring denim.
Current/Elliott slim jeans - oxygenboutique.com

3. Clutch: Add a touch of interest to your going-out get-up with an intriguing silver clutch.
Lattice clutch - ahalife.com

4. Bright Eyeshadow: You're always experimenting with make-up, so why not try out some unexpected shades on your eyes?
Urban decay eyeshadow - debenhams.com

5. Silver Party Dress: Sparkle and shine in a silver sequin dress that's perfect for the holiday season.
French Connection silver cocktail dress - welikefashion.com

6. Jacquard Blazer: A blazer in a rich, brocade/jacquard fabric is a fresh take on this classic staple.
Topshop - nordstrom.com

7. Statement Amethyst Jewellery: Incorporate your lucky stone into your outfit with a piece of statement jewellery, like this necklace (which would look fab with a simple t-shirt).
Necklace - jewelry.1stdibs.com

8. Studded Flats: Edgier than your typical ballet flats, these silver, studded, capped-toe wonders will toughen up even the sweetest outfit.
Philosophy di Alberta Ferretti flat shoes - albertaferretti.com

9. Colourful Hair Extensions: You like to shock now and then, so why not trick people into thinking you've dyed your hair purple by clipping some lavender locks into your everyday ponytail?
Lilac Lavender Pastel Purple Human Hair Extensions, Clip In Human Hair... - etsy.com

10. Alien Perfume: This cutely bizarre little perfume, with notes of amber and jasmine, appeals to your eccentric side, and the purple bottle resembles your birthstone.
Mugler - bloomingdales.com

http://www.gistexpress.com/tag/latest-news-on-jennifer-aniston/
http://www.milanihair.com/blog/celebrity-hair-talk-lauren-conrad-hairstyles/
http://madeleinemeeks.wordpress.com/2012/01/25/shakira-shakira/
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Creator/ParisHilton
http://aliciakeyspictures.blogspot.ca/
http://www.bellasugar.com/Get-Christina-Riccis-Rosy-Lip-Stain-Support-Good-Cause-5739965
http://www.beautyriot.com/celebrities/mischa-barton/photo-mischa-barton-long-curly-romantic-hairstyle
http://www.shefaly.co.uk/blog/tag/daisy-lowe-jewellery
http://gossipteen.com/tag/emma-roberts-pics/
http://www.people.com/people/isla_fisher/0,,,00.html
http://www.celebrityshoesize.com/r/kelly-rowland-457.html
http://site.verseo.com/verseo-blog/?attachment_id=703
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Aquarius2.jpg

FOCUS TO WIN!

Why focus on relationships? It's my passion. Ever since I first developed an interest in Astrology at the age of 12, it was never about 'the future'. It was always about people, and our interactions with each other. It began in the schoolroom observing teachers interact with pupils (when I should have been studying my books...oops!!) and then watching fellow students interact each other. That fascinated me - and to this day still does.

When I was in the dating phase, naturally, it became very important. In fact, it was very useful information to have at my fingertips. It helped me to avoid a lot of unnecessary pain and anguish. In addition, I always prayed for divine intervention. Mr. Right came into my own life at a very young age - and some 44 years later, he's still 'Mr. Right'. Did astrology help? Absolutely!

Then when I became a Momma to three adorable daughters - each from a different element of the zodiac to mine, it sure enlightened me, and I think that understanding helped our Mother/Daughter bond become so strong. In addition, the bond between the sisters.

Of course chapters can also be written about the relationship between employers and employees. During my years of working in the world of business, my knowledge of astrology was an invaluable tool to have at my disposal. It helped me enormously in getting along with others, which is the key to business success. When there was conflict, or wonderful rapport, I always found out the DOBs of the people in question. In the process, I learned more about compatible, and incompatible, astrological chemistry.

Astrology is a complicated science - some would call it an art. I think it is a combination of both. You are more than just your sun sign and planetary make-up, which can be as intricate and individual as your fingerprint. No two charts are identical. Add to the mix your upbringing and cultural background. Each adds a dimension to your personality, which can either bring out the best, or the worst, of your astrological inheritance.

The great news is that you can learn it for yourself! In addition to studying the art/science of astrology, a huge percentage of your learning relies on human observation, and the study of real lives. Reading biographies and obtaining birth data is a fascinating journey of discovery...

Just like looking at a piece of art, each Astrologer sees something unique and 'different' in a person's chart. There is indeed a story to be told...and always a most interesting one. The story of your past - but most important - the story of your NOW. Remember, YOU are the author of your own destiny. Astrologers simply direct you to the signposts...As above, so below.

Start by developing your relationship with yourself. Make it good because you're going to be spending an awful lot of time together - Right? A quickie way is to obtain a free birthchart. Google www.alabe.com . You may be surprised about what you learn about yourself. Of course time of birth needs to be as accurate as possible, to give an accurate reading.

BFN

Love,

Patricia xxx

ALL THE PRESIDENT'S WOMEN - OH MON DIEU!

French President Francois Hollande is not my version of a 'heartthrob' but then again love is blind...right?

He is currently caught in a very stormy love triangle and as a hot-blooded Leo - loving every minute of it! As I said in a previous blog, it's harder to get a Leo man to tone down the heat, than it is to pull a bone from a starving dog. What's with these Leo leaders anyhow? Bill Clinton of the "I did not have sex with that woman" fame, and Arnold Schwarzenegger, who disgraced himself with the family nanny. Having worked that hard to achieve power, why blow it??

Hollande apparently is shy of commitment, and has never married any of his women. He has four children with Segolene Royal who he was with for 25 years. His partner of the past 9 years, Valerie Trierweilen is recovering in hospital from a nervous breakdown after news leaked he was having an affair with French Actress, Julie Gayet, 20 years his junior. Close friends describe him as being a very funny and affable character, who has both a light, and a heavy side to his nature. This would be very much in keeping with his Sun Leo/Moon Capricorn combination. Ambitious? Yes - Very!!

Of course not all Leo men are like that! Because it is a 'fixed' sign, they can also be very proud and dignified in their behaviour. Unfortunately, Leo men in positions of power - more than any other sign, do tend to attract sycophants. The same can be said about the female of the species. Yes, they are pretty vulnerable in that department.

In a country where extra-marital affairs are as common as croque monsieur, nobody bats an eyelid...except the devastated ladies involved. Hollande's surreptitious comings and goings to Gayet's home, riding on his 'most unpresidential scooter' were caught on camera. His conservative black shoes and socks were a giveaway. Ha!

I decided to investigate the matter further, and find out which lady would be the best match for him. It was interesting what I came up with. Both his first partners were a good match for him intellectually, and I could see how he was drawn to each one. Both Segolene and Valerie have a strong Virgo component, which would have attracted his deeper side.

I think his current love interest, actress Julie Gayet is just too airy-fairy to sustain his interest for long. She is a double air sign, and her moon in Aquarius opposes his strong stubborn Leo sun, so once the novelty wears off...I think he'll get back on his scooter to Valerie Trierweilen, who in my opinion, is the best match for him - intellectually and romantically. Even though her sun in Aquarius is polar opposite to his Leo sun, the chemistry between them is strong, and both their moons in earth signs are compatible. The overall compatibility and mutual respect is there. She gets my vote.

As Hollande approaches his 60th birthday in August, it soothes his ego to be with a woman 20 years his junior. It has to be said Julie Gayet is a charming Gemini, and is easy on the eye...everything Marilyn Monroe was. I guess he needed a bit of a relief from the highly intelligent and anxiety-ridden Trierweilen. Karma is going to bite him in the butt.  I think in time Julie may tire of his pot belly, saggy baggy skin, and sweaty black socks.

If he came to me on his scooter in the dead of night and asked my opinion, I'd advise him to go back to Valerie - if she'll still have him. I hope he reads this!!

Salut!

Patricia xxx

MOMMY AND DADDY KARDASHIAN

I am not being mean or sarcastic when I say my heart truly bleeds for Bruce and Kris. I watched their new show last night, along with millions of other Kardashian-curious viewers. The sad and fearful expressions on their childrens' faces as they tried to break the news that "No - we're not separating - just living apart" spoke volumes. Poor Kris seemed genuinely upset.

Shame it has to end this way...and the sad - very sad thing is - it may not have ended this way if they lived a 'normal' life. They have successfully kept it together for 23 years - more than most in Hollywood. And astrologically speaking, there is immense love between them. They are both passionate Scorpios, so the bond between them will always be strong.

I would say that the cameras in his home all the time must have driven the secretive and immensely private Bruce insane. So curious was I to get a closer look at them, I checked out their DOB's. Unfortunately, no time of births, but enough information to give me a good idea.

Even though both are sun sign Scorpios - there is a considerable difference in their charts - big differences! For one thing Bruce has his moon in Aquarius. There is a rather cold and detached side to his personality, which clearly is manifesting itself now. Frequently people with a moon in Aquarius have had a troubled childhood. Children of alcoholics, or children who have lost a parent at a young age frequently have this moon placement. Lady Diana had it, and her parents separated. A lady I knew had it, and her dad died when she was 8. A client whose mum walked out on the family had it - just some examples of what I mean.

On the other hand, Kris has her moon in warm Cancer, hence her love for her children - and lots of them!! Kris is currently going through a very difficult time, with both her natal Saturn in Scorpio, and the fact the planet Saturn is currently lodged in Scorpio. Saturn is slow moving, and when it is in a sign, you can be sure that challenges are par for the course. So with Saturn in Scorpio, and both of them being Scorpio - it's double the pain!! In addition to that pain, Kris has even more agony with the planet Mars currently in Libra, and Uranus in Aries - driving her insane. Her boxing gloves have been on 24/7!!

January would have been a month from hell for poor Kris. Her natal mars in Libra would have clashed horribly with all that Capricorn energy around. She has been in battle with Bruce - that's for sure, and of the two of them, I think Kris has the more tender heart. Bruce has that double dose of fixed energy in his chart which I spoke about yesterday - so that means he is the more stubborn of the two. So getting him to come back to the family nest may be very difficult - if not impossible! Kris knows not to push him...

So what's going to happen to Bruce and Kris? I'm not overly optimistic at the moment. I think too much hurt and pain has been caused to Kris, and she may retaliate by getting a young, muscular hunk of a guy to occupy the void left by Bruce - just like Scorpio native Demi Moore did when Aquarian Ashton Kutcher left her for a younger woman.

Do you know some Scorpios going through a difficult time at the moment? If so, it is because of that Saturn in Scorpio. Things will begin to ease considerably in the second half of the year as its power lessens.

That's it for now!

Love,

Patricia a.k.a. 'Astro-Cupid' xxx

LOVE IS IN THE AIR!

It's everywhere I turn these days - not to mention the arrival of the red and pink fluffy stuff. Forget Christmas. Right now, the business is about floating hearts - lots of them!! The Valentine's Day brigade are shameless. They didn't give us a moment to catch our breath after Boxing day - and boy we needed to catch our breath! Fasten your chastity belts - we're in the season of LOVE!

Since last we spoke, I've been a very busy little Cupid. Up to my 'Love- Linking' little tricks! I knew this eligible bachelor, and a lovely divorcee. I felt they would be a good match for each other. So, throwing caution to the wind, I introduced them this past weekend. I was the chaperon, sitting between them in the restaurant. Let me tell you darlings - the sparks were flying - good sparks! So hot were they, I burnt my little brain, and left my reading glasses behind me. The two have been in regular contact since Friday, and they have arranged a further date...and more...and more!! You are not going to believe the other astrological co-incidence - she is the same sign as Michelle Obama - and the Merry Monsieur is the same sign as Barack!! I know exactly how to counsel them. But try and tell a Leo man to turn down the heat, is like trying to pull a bone from a hungry dog!!

Yes, it's a tough job being a matchmaker - but someone has to do it. When astro-counselling couples, I have to be direct and tell it like it is. Not always easy, but nevertheless, it is appreciated. When somebody comes to your door bearing their soul and heart, you have to handle them with tender loving care. Like the day I had to tell an earnest young fellow to employ caution, and that I did not feel the relationship was meant to be. He listened, and against my advice pursued his lady love, to discover she was madly in love with somebody else. Love it is a funny thing...blind...insane...addictive - but if you're not in - you can't win!

Love really is all about compromise...Some time ago, a couple came to see me. He had an invisible leash around his neck. As an Astro-Cupid, I see things others don't, and I could tell that he would rather be anywhere else! I welcomed them in, and made the customary tea, giving them a chance to relax and chill. Both their birth charts were unfortunately populated with a preponderance of planets in the 'fixed', or in layman's language 'stubborn' signs - Taurus - Leo - Scorpio and Aquarius. Yes, if you have a lot of these signs in your chart - you're going to be...how do I say this politely? - without offending...the word I am trying to ease out is... STUBBORN! On the plus side, you are very loyal, and don't give up easily. On the negative side, it can sometimes be a case of 'It's my way or the highway...! The art of compromise needs to be cultivated by people with a lot of 'fixed' energy in their charts.

"So who gets the final word?" I asked. "Him" she said, pointing to her husband. "Her" he added, pointing to his good Missus. I could see that compromise was a difficult pill for either one to swallow. We discussed their relationship, and as my guides would have it, we began to discuss his childhood, and relationship with his mother (very important!!).

Because they were both so set in their ways, we joked about it. I decided to turn what could be an emotionally charged session, into a more light-hearted humorous experience. I told them they needed to draw lots to decide on an issue. They loved that idea. Simple as it may sound. By the end of our session, they were holding hands, and all lovey-dovey again. Once we had discussed some strategies on moving on as a couple, the temperature in the room cooled down considerably. Smiles returned.

Tune in for some more stories in the next few days...There are loads of celebrities that I am literally itching to digest!!

Love you first...then you can love others more...

Hugs,

Astro-Cupid xxx

WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?

Just about everything is wrong with this picture. In this rather amusing 'two's company - three's a crowd' moment, the look on Michelle's face says it all, doesn't it?

In the blink of an eye, this snapshot captures for me the relationship between Barack and Michelle. Barack is a typical Leo. He loves the limelight, and shines in the public eye. Yes, if he wasn't a President, he could have been a movie star. But what about serious, ambitious, career-minded Capricorn, Michelle? Was their match made in Heaven? Yes, and No...!!

The yes part is when he tunes into his more sensitive side, which is evidenced by his ultra sweet Venus in Cancer. Yeah! for Michelle. Even though her birth chart says she has a moon in zero degrees Pisces, I think it's more Aquarius. Either way she is near enough to having a pisces moon, which would make her quite a sensitive soul, so Barack needs to tread softly on occasion. The bad part is when he doesn't...and I suspect this happens from time to time, as above picture would suggest.

Barack also has his mars in Virgo, which works nicely with her sun in Capricorn. Her Jupiter in Aries gives her the necessary feist to deal with Barack's fiery moments. Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius are the fire signs. Wherever you see these in a person's chart, you know they got a bit of chili hot pepper in that department! Michelle's Jupiter in Aries tells me that Barack is lucky for her, as her Jupiter trines his sun. So yes, it was a 'lucky' pairing. They are good for each other, and have each other's back. Barack's retrograde Saturn in Capricorn causes him moments of self-doubt. This is eased by Michelle's loving devotion which makes him feel secure. Beneath all his bravado, there is a little pussy cat needing to be stroked. Lady Michelle is all too aware of this - which is a good thing!

Michelle herself attributes the success of their relationship to "Compromise Compromise Compromise". I would add the word 'Ambition' to the mix. Michelle is both intelligent, and highly ambitious. If they were not so much in the public eye, or had so much money at their disposal, I feel that visits to a relationship counselor would have been on the cards. They are both strong minded individuals, but because Barack has his sun, moon and asc. in fixed signs - he is one seriously stubborn fellow! Michelle has a liberal dose of 'fixed' energy too, but not so afflicted in this department as Barack. In addition, Michelle is not a quitter, and can be tough as nails, when the situation calls for it. There is a lot at stake here for this 'Power Couple', which is what the Leo/Capricorn mix is all about.

Astrologically speaking, and putting all their love ingredients together, I think there is enough love, mutual respect, loyalty, support, and romance for this relationship to last. Let's be honest - Barack is in love with himself, which leaves very little room for poor Michelle on occasion! She just orbits his sun, and that's the way he likes it. Her job is to support her man 24/7, and this she does with all the drive and superhuman work ethic, native to her Capricorn earthy sun. Ambition fuels her obedience to duty.

What brought them together? Barack's moon in earthy Taurus and Mars in earthy Virgo, plus Venus is softy Cancer was a Godsend! Phew - that sure saved the day. Traditionally, A Leo/Capricorn alliance is not a match made in heaven. It depends on other elements to sustain it. Thankfully, they exist. His moon perfectly trines Michelle's sun in Capricorn. There is chemistry there - not in buckets - but enough to ignite the fire, and keep it going. Barack has a generous helping of earthy sensuality, which helps the situation enormously. In addition his ascendant in cool, airy Aquarius hits the spot perfectly with Michelle's moon in equally cool, detached Aquarius. So, there definitely are pockets of perfection in their union.

He is a showman, so will always put his best foot forward. Michelle by nature is a very practical, kind-hearted, home-loving gal. As an earthy Capricorn, she needs a man who gives her lots of TLC. Her ideal partner would be both sensitive, and touchy-feely - AND Successful - yes, that goes with her astrological turf. No good having a brawny butch boy, if he doesn't have the brains! She can organize an evening with the Chippendales any time.

So what does Michelle need to do to keep Barack from playing footsy with the Danish Prime Minister, Helle Thorning-Schmidt, who happens to be Sagittarius - his most compatible sign!! O.K. Let's not panic...He is not going to elope with her - I promise.

MICHELLE'S TO-DO LIST TO KEEP BARACK SMILING!!

1.  Chillax more - loosen up - tell dirty jokes - Seriously!

2.  Sit and listen to him sing...even if she wants to go to sleep.

3.  Tell him a hundred times a day how lucky she was to have him in her life.

4.  Get earthy...play footsy when nobody is looking.

5.  Laughter is the key to this man's heart.

6.  Worry less. She is a worry wart!


BARACK'S TO-DO LIST TO KEEP MICHELLE HAPPY!


1.  Cook her an omelet for breakfast, just because...

2.  Buy her a little piece of 'Victoria's Secret' and call it 'Michelle's Secret'.

3.  Whisper sweet nothings in her ear, when nobody is looking.

4.  Spend more time with the girls - all three.

5.  Accompany them on visits to J-Crew, and hold the shopping bags.

That's about it for now folks. Tune in again for my take on another celebrity relationship.

Remember to 'Love you' - after all, you're going to be spending a lot of time together!

Hugs,

Patricia
The LOVE Guru xxx